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你们这是忠装反还是反装忠我怎么看不懂啊。 他给我回复的邮件如下： to Ben In my opinion be careful of Ben Dong he has a rep for getting girls out of town and compromising them ....be warned....be careful of him.....what say you Ben ? 对于这等直接扣帽子的家伙也没啥好说的。 On Wed, Oct 5, 2016 at 2:06 AM, Tony Deng <[log in to unmask]> wrote: > 大家别骂了，他太太过身是真的，我们CAS学院的都知道。那位中国老师是很好的人，因为用功过度得病的。对她的家人， > 我觉得大家多点宽容。没了老婆，儿子没了妈妈是很惨的。他在沟通过程中有什么犯错不足的，大家尽量帮忙提意见。 > 增加正能量，为社会主义添砖加瓦，早日征服美帝人。 > > Thank you for your very insightful research Peng. From your description > and the information Dave supplied I have over 95% confidence interval in > what Dave said. > > I heard about the past of Jessica from my cohorts in CAS back in 2014. As > one of the many Chinese students from the ADPR program, I am very sorry for > your lost Dave. I wish from the bottom of my heart the very best for you > and your son. Something we can do at this point is to help clarify the > misunderstandings on this forum and hopefully you will find what you need. > > Dave, as you might know something about the Chinese cultural, we are > traditionally a very collective culture. We protect our in-groups > especially our women and children. We are also very low in uncertainty > avoidance, which means we don't usually trust strangers by their words. We > will need a lot of information, credentials and contacts to establish the > base of trust. This is very important for single women living overseas by > themselves. They have very little protection and many "insecurities" here. > If you please state your requirements more clearly in your communications > and you will get positive response. I would suggest posting photos, > credentials, and other information about you and your son. Hope that helps. > > Best, > > Tao Deng > Communication Arts & Sciences > 404 Wilson Rd., Room 550 > East Lansing, MI 48824 > E-mail: [log in to unmask] > > On Oct 4, 2016, at 13:18, Burkholderia Peng <[log in to unmask]> > wrote: > > > > 标题：我们也许需要给予这个哥们多一点宽容 > > > > 正文：两三个月前我曾经联系过这个哥们，告诉他我的爱人闲赋在家（那时候她还没想学GRE）。之后他给了我如下的回复 > > Thank you much for your response.....very sadly my beloved Chinese wife > > passed away four years ago and at this time we prefer a female tutor who > > does not have family related responsibilities so as to allow for focusing > > her attention exclusively upon my son....we Skype with the grandparents > > each Sunday morning and it would be nice if my son could conversationally > > speak Chinese with them....it's not easy to find a tutor often times due > to > > conflicting school class schedules , travel distance to and from our > house > > and there also might be visa restrictions so you will be seeing my tutor > > posting several times.....hope you can appreciate these points.....good > > luck here in America and hope you will be enjoying your visit and the > > winter time SNOW and COLD.....thanks again for your kind offer.....take > > care... > > > > 看完他的邮件我当时怒发冲冠，羞愤难当，查克拉已满，体内九尾兽随时爆发。因为我就住在meridian > > mall旁边，他家也在那里，我还告诉他我能开车接送。他回复我travel distance > > restricted！！另外我都告诉我我爱人是陪读，他告诉我conflicting > > class！！最可恨的是那句 female tutor who does not have family related > > responsibilities。这句英文之委婉让我深感英文之博大，之浩瀚。 > > > > 后来多次看到这个哥们推送邮件，我就在google 非常random地搜索了关键词 “Dave Carlo lansing”。 > > http://cas.msu.edu/cas-faculty-member-jessica-carlo-passes/ > 请放心打开链接，是MSU的。 > > 如果他是本人的话，他说的都是事实，他应该确实是找tutor，也能理解为什么希望是中国人， > 或许他希望这个tutor能或多或少填补一下孩子缺失的母爱， > > 所以希望是单身女性。 > > > > 不管怎样，我们应该对他家庭的遭遇多一些同情和理解。However, Dave, this doesn't mean the way you > did > > was completely right. > > > > On Tue, Oct 4, 2016 at 12:36 PM, Wang Hongying <[log in to unmask]> > > wrote: > > > >> I saw that at least 50 times before. Can we block him from this list? > >> > >> -----Original Message----- > >> From: Ben Dong [mailto:[log in to unmask]] > >> Sent: Tuesday, October 04, 2016 8:43 AM > >> To: [log in to unmask] > >> Subject: Re: [CSSAMSU] Need a Chinese language tutor > >> > >> 钓鱼技能1/750？ > >> > >> On Tue, Oct 4, 2016 at 8:39 PM, Leonard Ling <[log in to unmask]> > >> wrote: > >> > >>> I've contacted him as well and he said single lady is preferred. > >>> Highly suspected. > >>> > >>>> On Mon, Oct 3, 2016 at 9:30 PM, Jim Lee <[log in to unmask]> > wrote: > >>>> > >>>> my friend has contacted this guy once. I do not think he really want > >>>> to find a tutor. But more like to seek a "female play partner". > >>>> Chinese > >>> girls, > >>>> do not fool by this person. I suggest Admin remove this person from > >>>> this list in case some girl be bailed to his trap > >>>> > >>>> 2016-10-02 16:34 GMT-04:00 Dave Carlo <[log in to unmask]>: > >>>> > >>>>> Currently an opportunity exists for a reliable ( non smoking ) > >>>>> female Chinese language tutor .. > >>>>> > >>>>> We would like someone for tutoring both oral and written standard > >>>> Mandarin > >>>>> Chinese for a few hours each sessions to one child on Saturdays or > >>>> Sundays > >>>>> ONLY......Sorry at this time we are not able to accommodate a week > >>>>> day tutoring arrangement / schedule.. > >>>>> > >>>>> No formal tutoring experience is required just have a congenial > >>> attitude > >>>>> working with small children focusing upon teaching common daily > >>>>> conversational Chinese.. > >>>>> > >>>>> Reasonable to and from transportation is possible depending upon > >>>> distance/s > >>>>> involved. > >>>>> > >>>>> Please reply if interested by telling a bit about your self, and > >>>>> any experience/s being around small children...Thanks > >>>>> > >>>>> ================================================================ > >>>>> To Subscribe or Unsubscribe CSSAMSU mailing list, please go to: > >>>>> > >>>>> http://list.msu.edu/archives/cssamsu.html > >>>>> > >>>>> Click "Join or leave the list". For further assistance, please > >>>>> contact Jerry McAllister [log in to unmask] > >>>>> ================================================================ > >>>>> > >>>> > >>>> ================================================================ > >>>> To Subscribe or Unsubscribe CSSAMSU mailing list, please go to: > >>>> > >>>> http://list.msu.edu/archives/cssamsu.html > >>>> > >>>> Click "Join or leave the list". For further assistance, please > >>>> contact Jerry McAllister [log in to unmask] > >>>> ================================================================ > >>>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> -- > >>> Regards, > >>> Leonard > >>> > >>> ================================================================ > >>> To Subscribe or Unsubscribe CSSAMSU mailing list, please go to: > >>> > >>> http://list.msu.edu/archives/cssamsu.html > >>> > >>> Click "Join or leave the list". 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