你们这是忠装反还是反装忠我怎么看不懂啊。
他给我回复的邮件如下：
to Ben
In my opinion be careful of Ben Dong he has a rep for getting girls out of
town and compromising them ....be warned....be careful of him.....what say
you Ben ?
对于这等直接扣帽子的家伙也没啥好说的。
On Wed, Oct 5, 2016 at 2:06 AM, Tony Deng <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> 大家别骂了，他太太过身是真的，我们CAS学院的都知道。那位中国老师是很好的人，因为用功过度得病的。对她的家人，
> 我觉得大家多点宽容。没了老婆，儿子没了妈妈是很惨的。他在沟通过程中有什么犯错不足的，大家尽量帮忙提意见。
> 增加正能量，为社会主义添砖加瓦，早日征服美帝人。
>
> Thank you for your very insightful research Peng. From your description
> and the information Dave supplied I have over 95% confidence interval in
> what Dave said.
>
> I heard about the past of Jessica from my cohorts in CAS back in 2014. As
> one of the many Chinese students from the ADPR program, I am very sorry for
> your lost Dave. I wish from the bottom of my heart the very best for you
> and your son. Something we can do at this point is to help clarify the
> misunderstandings on this forum and hopefully you will find what you need.
>
> Dave, as you might know something about the Chinese cultural, we are
> traditionally a very collective culture. We protect our in-groups
> especially our women and children. We are also very low in uncertainty
> avoidance, which means we don't usually trust strangers by their words. We
> will need a lot of information, credentials and contacts to establish the
> base of trust. This is very important for single women living overseas by
> themselves. They have very little protection and many "insecurities" here.
> If you please state your requirements more clearly in your communications
> and you will get positive response. I would suggest posting photos,
> credentials, and other information about you and your son. Hope that helps.
>
> Best,
>
> Tao Deng
> Communication Arts & Sciences
> 404 Wilson Rd., Room 550
> East Lansing, MI 48824
> E-mail: [log in to unmask]
> > On Oct 4, 2016, at 13:18, Burkholderia Peng <[log in to unmask]>
> wrote:
> >
> > 标题：我们也许需要给予这个哥们多一点宽容
> >
> > 正文：两三个月前我曾经联系过这个哥们，告诉他我的爱人闲赋在家（那时候她还没想学GRE）。之后他给了我如下的回复
> > Thank you much for your response.....very sadly my beloved Chinese wife
> > passed away four years ago and at this time we prefer a female tutor who
> > does not have family related responsibilities so as to allow for focusing
> > her attention exclusively upon my son....we Skype with the grandparents
> > each Sunday morning and it would be nice if my son could conversationally
> > speak Chinese with them....it's not easy to find a tutor often times due
> to
> > conflicting school class schedules , travel distance to and from our
> house
> > and there also might be visa restrictions so you will be seeing my tutor
> > posting several times.....hope you can appreciate these points.....good
> > luck here in America and hope you will be enjoying your visit and the
> > winter time SNOW and COLD.....thanks again for your kind offer.....take
> > care...
> >
> > 看完他的邮件我当时怒发冲冠，羞愤难当，查克拉已满，体内九尾兽随时爆发。因为我就住在meridian
> > mall旁边，他家也在那里，我还告诉他我能开车接送。他回复我travel distance
> > restricted！！另外我都告诉我我爱人是陪读，他告诉我conflicting
> > class！！最可恨的是那句 female tutor who does not have family related
> > responsibilities。这句英文之委婉让我深感英文之博大，之浩瀚。
> >
> > 后来多次看到这个哥们推送邮件，我就在google 非常random地搜索了关键词 “Dave Carlo lansing”。
> > http://cas.msu.edu/cas-faculty-member-jessica-carlo-passes/
> 请放心打开链接，是MSU的。
> > 如果他是本人的话，他说的都是事实，他应该确实是找tutor，也能理解为什么希望是中国人，
> 或许他希望这个tutor能或多或少填补一下孩子缺失的母爱，
> > 所以希望是单身女性。
> >
> > 不管怎样，我们应该对他家庭的遭遇多一些同情和理解。However, Dave, this doesn't mean the way you
> did
> > was completely right.
> >
> > On Tue, Oct 4, 2016 at 12:36 PM, Wang Hongying <[log in to unmask]>
> > wrote:
> >
> >> I saw that at least 50 times before. Can we block him from this list?
> >>
> >> -----Original Message-----
> >> From: Ben Dong [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> >> Sent: Tuesday, October 04, 2016 8:43 AM
> >> To: [log in to unmask]
> >> Subject: Re: [CSSAMSU] Need a Chinese language tutor
> >>
> >> 钓鱼技能1/750？
> >>
> >> On Tue, Oct 4, 2016 at 8:39 PM, Leonard Ling <[log in to unmask]>
> >> wrote:
> >>
> >>> I've contacted him as well and he said single lady is preferred.
> >>> Highly suspected.
> >>>
> >>>> On Mon, Oct 3, 2016 at 9:30 PM, Jim Lee <[log in to unmask]>
> wrote:
> >>>>
> >>>> my friend has contacted this guy once. I do not think he really want
> >>>> to find a tutor. But more like to seek a "female play partner".
> >>>> Chinese
> >>> girls,
> >>>> do not fool by this person. I suggest Admin remove this person from
> >>>> this list in case some girl be bailed to his trap
> >>>>
> >>>> 2016-10-02 16:34 GMT-04:00 Dave Carlo <[log in to unmask]>:
> >>>>
> >>>>> Currently an opportunity exists for a reliable ( non smoking )
> >>>>> female Chinese language tutor ..
> >>>>>
> >>>>> We would like someone for tutoring both oral and written standard
> >>>> Mandarin
> >>>>> Chinese for a few hours each sessions to one child on Saturdays or
> >>>> Sundays
> >>>>> ONLY......Sorry at this time we are not able to accommodate a week
> >>>>> day tutoring arrangement / schedule..
> >>>>>
> >>>>> No formal tutoring experience is required just have a congenial
> >>> attitude
> >>>>> working with small children focusing upon teaching common daily
> >>>>> conversational Chinese..
> >>>>>
> >>>>> Reasonable to and from transportation is possible depending upon
> >>>> distance/s
> >>>>> involved.
> >>>>>
> >>>>> Please reply if interested by telling a bit about your self, and
> >>>>> any experience/s being around small children...Thanks
> >>>>>
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> >>>
> >>> --
> >>> Regards,
> >>> Leonard
> >>>
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