标题：我们也许需要给予这个哥们多一点宽容
正文：两三个月前我曾经联系过这个哥们，告诉他我的爱人闲赋在家（那时候她还没想学GRE）。之后他给了我如下的回复
Thank you much for your response.....very sadly my beloved Chinese wife
passed away four years ago and at this time we prefer a female tutor who
does not have family related responsibilities so as to allow for focusing
her attention exclusively upon my son....we Skype with the grandparents
each Sunday morning and it would be nice if my son could conversationally
speak Chinese with them....it's not easy to find a tutor often times due to
conflicting school class schedules , travel distance to and from our house
and there also might be visa restrictions so you will be seeing my tutor
posting several times.....hope you can appreciate these points.....good
luck here in America and hope you will be enjoying your visit and the
winter time SNOW and COLD.....thanks again for your kind offer.....take
care...
看完他的邮件我当时怒发冲冠，羞愤难当，查克拉已满，体内九尾兽随时爆发。因为我就住在meridian
mall旁边，他家也在那里，我还告诉他我能开车接送。他回复我travel distance
restricted！！另外我都告诉我我爱人是陪读，他告诉我conflicting
class！！最可恨的是那句 female tutor who does not have family related
responsibilities。这句英文之委婉让我深感英文之博大，之浩瀚。
后来多次看到这个哥们推送邮件，我就在google 非常random地搜索了关键词 “Dave Carlo lansing”。
http://cas.msu.edu/cas-faculty-member-jessica-carlo-passes/ 请放心打开链接，是MSU的。
如果他是本人的话，他说的都是事实，他应该确实是找tutor，也能理解为什么希望是中国人，或许他希望这个tutor能或多或少填补一下孩子缺失的母爱，
所以希望是单身女性。
不管怎样，我们应该对他家庭的遭遇多一些同情和理解。However, Dave, this doesn't mean the way you did
was completely right.
On Tue, Oct 4, 2016 at 12:36 PM, Wang Hongying <[log in to unmask]>
wrote:
> I saw that at least 50 times before. Can we block him from this list?
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Ben Dong [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> Sent: Tuesday, October 04, 2016 8:43 AM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Re: [CSSAMSU] Need a Chinese language tutor
>
> 钓鱼技能1/750？
>
> On Tue, Oct 4, 2016 at 8:39 PM, Leonard Ling <[log in to unmask]>
> wrote:
>
> > I've contacted him as well and he said single lady is preferred.
> > Highly suspected.
> >
> > On Mon, Oct 3, 2016 at 9:30 PM, Jim Lee <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> >
> > > my friend has contacted this guy once. I do not think he really want
> > > to find a tutor. But more like to seek a "female play partner".
> > > Chinese
> > girls,
> > > do not fool by this person. I suggest Admin remove this person from
> > > this list in case some girl be bailed to his trap
> > >
> > > 2016-10-02 16:34 GMT-04:00 Dave Carlo <[log in to unmask]>:
> > >
> > > > Currently an opportunity exists for a reliable ( non smoking )
> > > > female Chinese language tutor ..
> > > >
> > > > We would like someone for tutoring both oral and written standard
> > > Mandarin
> > > > Chinese for a few hours each sessions to one child on Saturdays or
> > > Sundays
> > > > ONLY......Sorry at this time we are not able to accommodate a week
> > > > day tutoring arrangement / schedule..
> > > >
> > > > No formal tutoring experience is required just have a congenial
> > attitude
> > > > working with small children focusing upon teaching common daily
> > > > conversational Chinese..
> > > >
> > > > Reasonable to and from transportation is possible depending upon
> > > distance/s
> > > > involved.
> > > >
> > > > Please reply if interested by telling a bit about your self, and
> > > > any experience/s being around small children...Thanks
> > > >
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